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Marianne V. Shackles Shackles UnShackled
Memorial day is a special day set aside to honor and remember those who proudly served our nation and gave their lives in that effort. Memorial day to others is also a day set aside by to honor, respect, and remember those who have passed on. It’s been said, "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." A newly erected memorial dedicated to those who lost their lives on Valujet’s, ill fated Flight 592, stands bold and tall along the Tamiami Trail. The triangular shaped concrete and steel structure consists of 110 columns reaching toward the sky – one column representing each soul who perished on May 11, 1996 - pointing due north, toward the impact site. This simple yet elegant memorial, 11 miles west of Krome Avenue on the Tamiami Trail, was suggested by victims’ families. It was constructed in a six month period by students and other volunteers from the University of Miami School of Architecture, with help from the American Institute of Architects’ student chapters. The memorial, whose grounds are still under final construction offers varying memories. As you approach the grassy knoll, making your way up through the swamp vegetation, one is instantly aware of something quite serene and formidable - yet peaceful. As I reached out to touch a column, there was a calm tranquility. A shiver ran up my spine and the hair on my arms stood up, as I read the memorabilia family and friends had left behind. I knew I was on hallowed ground.
On one side of the memorial was an over vegetated canal. A fisherman and his son were enjoying an afternoon together, possibly unaware of what had happened just three years before in the grassy swamp just off to their left. Each of the 110 columns represents a human life taken in that tragic event. Each column represents a name, a face, a history and a loved family member departed. At the base in the first row of columns, are photographs of the aircrafts pilot, Captain Candalyn Kubeck, of Bedford, Texas. Sitting alone, next to her picture, is a rain soaked faded teddy bear. Behind one of her photographs someone has placed a single dollar bill, a peacock feather, and two pennies. It was curious – many of the columns had pennies strewn by them along with peacock feathers as well. Tucked against another column was a baby book for a 2-4 year old – "All Together." Yes, behind each column is a face, a history – a life cut short. I stood quietly and said a prayer – not for the victims for they are at peace – but for the family and friends who must endure the pain of their loss forever. This memorial day, between the bar-b-ques and picnic celebrations, take a minute out of your day to remember our veterans who fought so bravely for us as well as for the family and friends of those who have lost loved ones in air disasters such as Valujet or from the senseless shootings like those in Colorado et al. They are gone, but they should never be forgotten. While you’re are at it, lean over and give someone you care about a big hug. They are still alive. You won’t regret it. |